You may have been to a recent wedding and been underwhelmed with the ceremony. And you may have left thinking that was fantastic, the celebrant was great - she really pitched it well and suited the couple.
How do you find the right celebrant?
Do you prefer an Independent celebrant (non-religious) or an Organisational celebrant (usually faith based).
An independent celebrant can marry you anywhere except in a consecrated church – this would require the approval of the parish. However, many Independent celebrants, like me, are open to some form of spiritual content if requested. Nearly all couples I work with stipulate no religious reference of any kind.
If you know the name of a great celebrant, they’ll have a current website, a Facebook page and probably Instagram. They’ll have regular posts and you’ll be able to message them from any of these platforms. For example: www.hawkesbaycelebrant.com https://www.facebook.com/hawkesbaycelebrant/
- Search online for ‘Hawke’s Bay Celebrant’ or another region if it’s different. Also use the words marriage or the person's name in the search title.
- Ask family and friends if they know of a good celebrant.
- Ask the wedding function manager.
- Would you prefer a man or a woman?
When you’ve found a celebrant who appeals, set up a meet and greet in person, by phone, video or Facetime. You’ll need to ask if they’re available on your date – no point continuing if they’re not.
At the first meeting be clear about what you’re looking for. The celebrant should give you a guideline to costs. They may have options and should give you a formal quote. If the costing is out of your ball park then you’ll need to go back to the drawing board.
A really great celebrant will come with expertise, experience and a back story of training and life skills. Their fee will be one of the smallest expenses you need to cover. I urge you to include quality in your search for a celebrant or any wedding vendor. Check out their testimonials, recommendations.
In Hawke’s Bay you can expect to pay between $350 and $550 plus travel expenses for a marriage celebrant. In the bigger centres like Auckland the fee will be $500 - $750+.
Really good celebrants get booked up months in advance. So just as you need to secure your venue and photographer early on, include nailing your celebrant.
A great celebrant discreetly multi-tasks on the day. Their antennae are up, so not only are you the centre of their attention, they'll be totally aware of what's going on around you. A great celebrant has presence, can read situations quickly and adapt the ceremony seamlessly. They'll also have a sense-of-humour and keep things in perspective.
Your wedding ceremony should be memorable for all the right reasons.
I'd be delighted to meet with you, listen to your ideas and share my expertise and experience.
At your service…
Jo Smith... Celebrant and Validated member of the NZ Celebrants' Association